Wednesday, November 19, 2008'♥
hatred is a subset of life.
is quite a pessimistic post. so if you will feel uncomfortable, i suggest you not to read at all.
lets start.
differences leads to misunderstandings, misunderstandings leads to argument, argument leads on to hatred. isn't that what our life is about apart from happiness. there is another road.
accidents leads to sadness, sadness leads to hatred, hatred leads to insanity.
i don't know why am i suddenly saying this topic. but i felt like it.
i believe everyone is different. even twins. in mindset, in action and in behavior.
in mindset. everyone is molded to their own surroundings, the way that your parents had educated you, peers around you. for example, a mindset will suddenly change when other factors influenced it.
scenario: there is a person who witness and listen how XXX people so selfish, so unreasonable, so calculative, and these people somehow hurt the person most closest kin, for example mum.
1. it will mold the person to a way that they also have to be selfish, unreasonable, calculative since they did it.
2. next, it will mold to the person to a way that it shouldn't follow those people footsteps and carry on their life, or try their way to fight the fate that the god had pre-set it.
in action. is similar to mindset, however, witness with their own eyes. it definitely influence the person.
scenario: it might just be a simple action of flaring up, it just has different interpretation.
1. the person will think that the person is just so petty, as the person him or herself doesn't find that they are in wrong and flaring up on them is just something very sensitive and irritating thing. everyone is just inferring, guessing on one another as always.
2. reflect and think of its own mistakes. makes our life better and live happily.
in behavior. most important, surrounding factors.
scenario: a bloody rich brat.
1. He or she may just flaunt her money, or worst, hurting others as they are just rich brats, they have nothing but money and power, since their parents say there's nothing wrong.
2. He or she may just keep quiet, have a low profile as it doesn't want any attention. or maybe is the command of their own parents.
somehow, i think everyone is just like an angel but with a small devil heart waiting for it to unleash or it is under control, including me. i don't believe anyone doesn't have greed, kind as always, and never does any mistakes.
人永远不是十全十美，一点点的错误，可以变成一个悲剧。
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